In fact,  it generally distresses children so much that they can’t pay attention to your explanations or directions. It’s hard to reason with a screaming, crying child. Some parents who frequently slap a toddler’s hand are dismayed to find their toddler slapping back. Or worse yet, slapping and hitting others.

Spanking and slapping can quickly get out-of-hand for both parents and children. Most reported cases of abuse involve loving, well-meaning parents who just lost control.  Studies show that children who experi- ence or witness a great deal of spanking, slapping, or hitting are much more likely to become physically aggressive themselves.

Toddlers love to imitate. Most parents find it more successful to teach a child what to do rather than what not to do. It may help to think of behavior problems as opportunities to teach your child new skills. After all, the word discipline comes from the word disciple, which means “to teach.” 

Toddler needs guidance if you understand the reasons for his or her behavior and know your options.  Good luck!